Saturday, August 16, 2008

Saturday, May 10, 2008

Taboos? Are you into Taboo sex

Are you in to taboo sex?

Taboo is considered to be something that a society or religion teaches against. Whilst theres not much that is taboo these days , as we pretty much can do anything we think of, there are yet a few things that people consider to be taboo in bed. These things are usually the things that make us so horny that we cant last a minute which is why we enjoy doing these such things. A rush is involved when it comes to doing something you know is wrong. It is the same feeling a thief probably gets when he steals something. In this day and age, very few things are off limits...

It probably depends on where you live. If you live on the coast near a beach, people tend to be more liberal. Everything and anything goes. If you live in the heartland, where you can see corn fields as far as the eye can see, chances are you live in more of a conservative area.

I've never understood this really. Sometimes I think people who are near agriculture perceive themselves as closer to God. When you toil in the soil all day growing food for many people to eat, you become kind of one with the earth. This is my theory. Who knows, I have lived on the coast and in corn field city and this is what I think.

There are still some things that are taboo. It is hard to believe, but it is true. As long as you are enjoying yourself and no one is being harmed, who cares? Let's talk about some taboo sex acts that you might enjoy.

- Banging her in the pooper.

Amazingly, some where in the world still view anal sex as taboo. Most men dream of achieving this feat, many will go home in defeat. There is a lot of stigma placed on anal sex. While most of us men view it as the next best thing since sliced bread, society has a very different view on it.

I think sometimes this is because people confuse anal sex with gay sex. I know, I probably lost you there. Just because a man enjoys anal sex, that doesn't mean that he is gay. I think a lot of people think about gay men having anal sex and it turns people off of it. Well, if you are wanting to bang her in the pooper, you aren't gay. Unless of course your girlfriend is a tranny who hangs out in front of Seven Eleven.
I think another reason why anal sex is taboo is because that is where we move our bowels. Let's be frank, that is where shit comes out of. A lot of people get disgusted with the thought that someone is going to touch them back there. I think some women are fearful that you will get a whiff of shit while toying back there and get turned off. If you enjoy the pooper, chances are you know what the pooper mainly is used for.

- Earning your bloody wings.

Oral sex while a woman is on her period is still thought as taboo. I'm not sure if this is more taboo than disgusting. I have talked to men that claim to enjoy performing oral sex with a woman on her period.
Some women enjoy receiving oral sex while on their period. Some claim that it helps relieve the pain and makes them feel less stressed out. I don't know, this is a bit taboo for me. When the monthly friend comes around, that is when I usually check to make sure she has enough batteries for the vibrator.

- Group sex.

This is very taboo to some people. Having an sex in a room filled with people moaning and groaning is the ideal thing for some people. Nothing is more of a turn on than to see a hot babe getting drilled. It is like watching porn, without having to pay for the movie!

- Swinging.

Swapping your partner in the swinging lifestyle is considered taboo. More and more people are starting to enjoy this. They either go to swinger parties or go to swinger clubs. You find another couple you would like to have sex with and you swap partners. So for example, you find a couple you want to have sex with. You would swap your wife for another mans wife. Sounds great doesn't it? Who said that marriage meant that you had to have boring sex for the rest of your life?

- Peeping Tom.

Voyeurism is taboo. Some people get turned on when they know someone is watching them have sex. The idea of it will make them harder than a cement sidewalk. A lot of people enjoy this. There are many safe ways one is able to enjoy this. Sometimes swingers don't swap partners, they just have sex in the same room with another couple. Other people will enjoy group sex to get their voyeur fix in. You can watch other people get it on while you bang the old lady. Be careful, if you catch your eye on a hot babe, you might get embarrass how quick you finish.

As long as there is sex, there is going to be taboo sex acts. As long as you and your partner both agree to it, there is nothing wrong with it. MAKE SURE that your partner is fully aware and agrees with what you end up doing.

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

Spice up your sexlife! with Foreplay Advice!!!!!

Foreplay simply defines everything that comes before the actual intercourse. It is seen as the critical and crucial part of the whole lovemaking experience and is needed by the couples to spice up their sex life; fully arousing and heightening the pleasure.

Men are from Mars.

For some men to get an erection the foreplay sometimes needs to be extended. The foreplay for men is relatively simple and easy. By the direct touching of the genitals a man can be aroused. But for those women, who want to tantalize their men into submission remember these five foreplay-for-him maneuvers.

1. Visuals play a vital role, so a sexy clothes would be a nice touch but giving him an unadulterated view of your body will be the hottest gift. Reinforce this view with some steamy moves guaranteed to thrill, like giving him a strip tease.

2. Let your parted lips roam his body, like his stomach or chest, then slowly exhale. The rush of hot air will change the temperature in his skin and heighten his arousal.

3. Seize control and show your animal instinct. You'll be surprise to know that men crave seduction as much as a woman and being aggressive is a sign of lust and that you're as into it as he is.

4. Excite them with touch. Guys are especially touchy when they are between the sheets. Giving him butt massages and long but gentle scratches up and down their back will turn your fella right on.

5. Do what ever it is you are doing to bring him to the brink. Then ease up, not necessarily stopping, but put off the good thing for a while. Do this a few times until he screams "enough already."

Women are from Venus.

For a women the foreplay enables them to become properly lubricated. It can be abit more complicated when it comes to women foreplay. Direct genital touching is the last place you should go, consider every where else on her body as a good place to touch, massage and kiss before you go there. Letting her know that she is wanted for more than sex, that she is cared about as a woman, is what really turns her on. Here is a five step plan to help her get ready.

1. Nothing is more important to a woman than knowing that you have a connection. It can be as simple as telling her that you were thinking about her, and missed her, nothing over-the-top, just honest and caring conversation.

2. Remember that being intimate does not have to mean being sexual. Once in a while ask her probing questions and give her more than one-word replies when she asks you the same. Confide in her, and let her know that you appreciate her listening.

3. Establish physical contact without being sexual, like holding her hand, giving her massages, do anything to simply make contact without mauling her.

4. Kissing, for women, is an incredible turn on. You have to remember that women sees kissing as another form of emotional intimacy so do not go to a lot of tongue action right away. It will be good to start with a brief caressing of lips and pay attention to whether or not she's digging it. If she is, continue from there with a bit more passion but always be aware of whether she is reciprocating. A great trick is to imitate her kissing style, as it's surely a sign of what she likes!

5. Remember that from kissing her until the "heavy petting" stage, there should be some interval in between. The duration of the kiss will depend on how hot and bothered you both get. The longer and slower you kiss her, the more experienced you'll seem, and the she'll be excited.

Usually, the longer the foreplay takes the more sensitized your skin becomes, which sends your senses hay wire leading to an explosive orgasm. So really there is no time limit. The key is to start intercourse when both partners are fully aroused and having a hard time controlling their desires. Remember that initiating sex, breaking routine, exploration, new places, new positions, letting him/her know that he/she is wanted sexually is what turns your partner on.

Saturday, March 22, 2008

FAST OR SLOW???????????


It seems, that when applying to how a women wants it in bed, that many prefer the sensual approach rather than the pound-pound-pounding way. Although its to each her own, either a fast fuck or the slow, smooth kind. all women are different to how they want it in the bed.

A slow, smooth approach will enable you and your partner to employ your senses and experience all the bliss related to the sexual experience. Feel her soft skin, see her lovely face, hear her moans, taste her mouth, and smell the scent of her body.

True, most films favor and highlight the fast and hard fucking. But that's just on film, silly! That's the way it's supposed to look -- quickly and vigorously. How else can they sustain your interest if they otherwise took the slow road? It'd be rather boring, wouldn't it? So, in order to get that wild and exciting impression, the porn stars are instructed to take the fast road. That's why men have created the illusion that this is just the way it is supposed to be done. Well, sorry to disappoint.

Besides there are advantages to the slow approach. One is that you get to explore her body more. It's not just her breasts and her twat that matters. Have you tried licking her ears, touching her nape or the back of her knees, or massaging her foot? Well, you should. These are highly erogenous areas of the woman's body' and it'd just be too selfish of you if you don't provide her the pleasure.

Women are turned on with kissing, caressing, licking (slurping even). It just sends her to the edge as you masterfully rein her back. This only makes her even hornier! She'll want you more and more if you tease her; building up the aching need inside her. Don't you just love hearing her moan and feel the tingling down her spine?

Build up her longing with romantic nuances like flickering candles, rose petals, fresh sheets, sweet music, kinky underwear or sex toy. This whole romantic package is important for her, so don't you try to shortchange her. Try out various foreplay techniques first before taking the slow plunge. Intense and increased desire only makes way for numerous orgasms.

A slow approach also conserves your energy for that surging crescendo. If you thrust harder and deeper, you are in a rush to get there. You're only forcing it; and it's not as satisfying as it should have been otherwise. It could also give your honey a stiff neck or sore back, for that matter. Several seconds of frenzy rewarded by a quick orgasm is rather limiting. Why not extend your pleasure even more?

Learn how to control your urges. Build up her longing with slow, deliberate thrusts, pausing curtly, and constricting your inner muscles. Touching fosters a stronger connection; the more you are familiar with each other's bodies, the more intimate your sexual encounters would be.

Every sexual experience means so much for a woman. So, try to approach your love-making with sincerity, confidence, and respect. You can show her this by making her feel special and by considering her needs. She may not say it out loud, but she needs more than a steely pecker inside her. She needs more than that, and you should know better.

Tuesday, March 4, 2008

Sperm Increase

Increasing the volume of your ejaculate will directly affect the following aspects of your sexuality:

Increase the strength of your orgasms:

When you take such herbal supplements as amino acids or other natural sexual aids, your body can produce more ejaculate fluid, which increases the strength of your orgasms. Also, strengthening your pc muscle can greatly increase the force with which the ejaculate leaves your penis, making orgasms very intense.

Having a larger amount of ejaculate pass through the penis during an orgasm can prolong coitus (orgasm experience). The pumping sensation of an orgasm, of the semen and ejaculate fluids being pushed out through the ejaculatory ducts.

Improve your sperm count, and overall virility:

In order to fertilize an egg a large amount of sperm is required, many hundreds of millions. While the average man can produce this many sperm multiples times per day, there are external factors that can adversely affect the sperm count. Things such as smoking, drug use, poor diet, lack of exercise, and even wearing tight clothing in the groin area can all decrease the sperm count.

Increasing the volume of your sperm increases your fertility by increasing the number of sperm that are produced during each ejaculation. If you are trying to have children, the number of sperm you ejaculate is quite important, as is their condition. The pc exercise and amino acids such as L-Arginine and L-Lysine also help the health of your sperm, which increases your fertility and the chances of pregnancy (should you be seeking it).

Help your partner enjoy sex more:

When you ejaculate, your penis pumps semen and ejaculate, which many men and women find pleasurable. When you increase the amount of your ejaculate the pleasurable pumping feeling lasts longer, and also increases your pleasure. During intercourse extended pumping and orgasm pleasure improves the experience for both partners.

How do I do it?

Increasing the volume of your semen is done mainly through two things, taking herbal supplements such as amino acids, and the pc exercise.

Suggested amino acids and herbal supplements are:

- L-Arginine (taken with L-Lysine, to prevent occasional skin problems)

- L-Lysine

Veromax (combines the above amino acids, as well as L-Alanine, ginseng, saw palmetto berry, and biloba leaf)

The pc exercise has been proven to help increase the amount of ejaculate produced during orgasm. By following natural enlargement guides and doing the pc exercise daily, you can experience improved orgasms as well as increased volume.

Saturday, February 23, 2008

Your General Overview Of Venereal Diseases!!!

Better known today as sexually-transmitted diseases (STD), Venereal diseases are a series of diseases which are transmitted through sexual contact between persons. which is transmitted through vaginal, oral or anal sex.

Another term used by experts is “sexually transmitted infections”, but this term is less common.

Venereal diseases are an old companion and concern of mankind!

With the British Empire spreading throughout the world, Diseases were brought back to england through the British travelers, sailors and soldiers.
On January 31, 1947, the first VD clinic was opened at London Dock Hospital because of this break out. The main purpose for opening this clinic was study the diseases that arrose, with the biggest threats in those times were the syphilis and gonorr hea. They were also considered incurable at the time and doctors focused mostly on treating the symptoms.

After the discovery of Antibiotics the situation changed making a lot of the old venereal diseases curable. Public health authorities have also launched campaigns of eradication against these diseases, which led to a decline in the number of cases. However, the ‘80s meant the advent of AIDS and genital herpes, which cannot be cured by modern medicine.

The most common VDs are Syphilis, Chancroid, Chlamydia Infection, Gonorrhea, Herpes, AIDS, Candidiasis and LGV. Sexual contact is also a means of spreading parasites such as pubic lice and scabies.

The easiest way of protecting yourself from VDs is to use condoms during sex. Although this will not help you against pubic lice, it would at least prevent the spread of infections and spare you the “pleasure” of visiting the STD ward. More so since, despite all efforts, AIDS still means death.

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Kissing!!!! (do's and Don'ts)



There is no such thing as too much knowledge when it comes to sex and love because no matter how much experience you have there is always something that you missed, some bits of information that did not reach him or her. Also since most people like you have other things to do with their lives than striving to become a sort of walking sex and love encyclopedias, it follows that you need tips now and then.

Within the emotional kit of human beings, kisses are a very versitile tool among the physical expressions of love.From the short and tender kiss of a grandmother, to heads of state briefly touching their lips to each other’s cheeks and on to passionate lovers French kissing their way to a hot session of sex, it’s obvious that your lips can express many things.

The best kisses are obviously those that come out right, so some tips are in order for the use of people who either don’t get much practice or are not catching up fast on what they should do. Don’t laugh! Nobody was born knowing how to do this or that thing. We all have to learn.

Yet we can all be thankful to the French for opening the door to the intimate play of tongues (although it’s not clear whether the French kiss comes from Paris or not), kissing is actually a universal language that can be learnt by all people. Traditionally, French kissing has been associated with the Western world, from which it’s now spreading around the globe.

If and when you are preparing to go for the kiss, its a good idea to take your time for a reality check. Is the girl willing to go along with this or not? If you’re about to make your approach and the girl gets an embarrassed look on her face and starts fidgeting in her chair in what may be seen as an evasive maneuver, then pull back and give her some breathing space. Don’t rush things because you’re going to regret it.

One of the first things you need to know is that French kisses are not meant for the first date, unless, of course, the girl is quite the party animal and you both know that your date has only one purpose. In that case, anything goes if you can get away with it; even sex in the restaurant’s lavatory. Or if the girl is so clearly willing that there can be no mistake about it. But in all other cases, save French kissing either for the end of the date or for another date.

Girls hate 2 things and they are having guys shoving their tongues down their throats and having their oxygen supply cut off during kissing. Therefore, you need to take care that you leave the girl enough room to breathe or to break the kiss every now and then. This will also help you, because you also need the oxygen. Two people kissing are sharing an intimate moment, not engaging in an endurance test or in a race to the death.

When actually going for the kiss, don’t charge with your tongue sticking out or your mouth. This can gross out even the hardcore promiscuous people. Put your lips against hers and only then let your tongue come out to play. And don’t stab her mouth with your tongue. Keep your cool and read her emotions. If she wants more passion or a little rough play, then go ahead and do what you think best. If not, then keep your tongue to yourself.

On the other hand, if both you and your partner find yourselves exhausted by a prolonged session of passionate kissing, then you are on the right path. It means that she enjoys your kisses and that she probably doesn’t mind going even further. Just remember to refrain from rushing things. The slow path is sometimes best.